You don’t have to wait.
We learned how to meet women the hard way, but we figured out pretty quickly that waiting just makes her think that you aren’t interested in anymore. Call her sooner rather than later.
Here’s the thing: there’s no reason why you should have to wait. If you wait around, she’s going to think that you didn’t like the date, and that you didn’t like her.
If you wait until the next day, that should be fine. Let her know that you had a great time, and that you’d like to see her again. This is a much better way to keep her interested.
Don’t harass her.
While we highly recommend tossing aside the three-day rule, we really don’t mean that you should start messaging her or calling her from the driveway that same night.
You need to take your time. Don’t come off as creepy, and the best way to avoid doing that is to wait until the next afternoon and let her know how much fun you ended up having.
This is a pretty fool proof method in our opinion. You can even just send her a text with a smile in it to let her know that you had a good time, not a single call required!
Keep it to the way she prefers.
If you’re dating a lady that really doesn’t like talking on the phone, don’t force her to get on the phone with you. If you’re dating someone that prefers e-mails, go that way instead.
If you stick to her preferred method of communication, you really can’t go wrong. Just don’t send her multiple messages, and you’ll honestly be golden in contacting her.
Some women just prefer things a certain way, and that’s something to keep in mind when you’re chasing after her. Don’t try to make her bend to your whims at all.
Don’t spam her.
If she doesn’t respond to your message right away, then you can apply a three-day rule. There’s a chance it might have gotten lost, or life might have gotten in the way.
If she doesn’t respond after you send her another message, then she’s probably just not interested in you. Take the hint, and move on to someone else that actually is.
Don’t take it personally if she doesn’t respond. Here’s the thing: there are a million fish in the sea. You can always find someone else that’s going to be really into you.
We’ve said it before, and we’ll say it again. It’s incredibly important for you to just stay relaxed and confident when dating women online, and that applies with messages like this, too.
If you’re relaxed, she’ll be relaxed, too. Keep that in mind, and just try to take it a day at a time, especially when you’re sending out messages after that first date night.