Deciding what type of photos to send women is pretty easy as long as you know the type of woman that you’re talking to. Some guys make the mistake of going straight of the crotch shot and dick pics that will pretty much ensure that a woman never talks to you again. While we can understand that you’re trying to entice women because we all know that women actually do care about size. If that type of photo is the first one that you send her, she will no longer be interested in you. It doesn’t matter how well-endowed you are. Women like surprises, and this is no exception. Before you start filling up her inbox and cell phone with your most indecent photos, make sure you know if it’s the right time to send them.
“Healthy flirting is always welcome”
If the two of you are just casually flirting via text or email, you should avoid sending her any type of nude photos right away. If you do decide to send her a photo, you will need to ask permission first. When you ask permission, do not say anything like, “Want to see a picture of me?” or “Can I show you something?” This will immediately sound off alarms inside her head. Instead, you should pretend as though you need her advice or a suggestion on your physical appearance. For example, “Do you think I should shave off my beard?” or “How would I look if I changed my hair color?” If you want her to see your body rather than your face, try putting on some nice clothes and asking her, “Does this look like something good enough to wear to an interview?” You want to ask her these questions because they make it seem like you need her help, and will guarantee that she actually looks at the pictures. It will also make you appear more likeable because you are showing her that you value her opinion.
Heavy Flirting and Sexting
“Ask her if she is fine with sexting first”
When the two of you are doing more than casually flirting, it may be OK to start sending her nudes. You will still want to pay close attention to how the conversation is going. If she seems like she will be cool with receiving your nude photos, you should still take a moment to ask permission before you send her anything. You can say something like, “Can I show you how hot you’re making me?” Do not just send her the photo without any type of notice.
Another way you can tell if she’ll be OK with getting nude photos from you is to wait and see if she sends you photos of herself first. Even if she doesn’t send you any nudes, she may send you a provocative photo. This is a good sign that nudes may be acceptable.
Regardless of when you think the best time to send nudes would be, we recommend strategically placed clothing rather than a full out dick pic. Women seem to like to imagine what’s there rather than seeing for themselves. Don’t give her everything all at once. Make her want it.