When you’ve been fortunate enough to receive a woman’s cell phone number, you may be wondering if it’s OK to text her. You may also be wondering what type of things you should text her about. While some women are happy to receive look texts filled with tons of questions and compliments, other women can get annoyed with really long texts. Other women can become irritated when they receive a bunch of short texts that seem like they could have all fit into one text. The trick to texting is discovering what a woman is up to via your initial text and then to take things from there.
“Wait for the right moment to text her”
When a woman tells you that she’s busy, this is not an invitation to keep texting her and patiently waiting for her to text you back. When a woman tells you that she’s busy, it’s either because she really is busy, or because she does not want to speak to you. If she is actually busy as she says, the last thing you want to do is annoy her by sending her multiple texts or asking her questions that she can’t answer right away. If you don’t want to risk annoying her, try sending her a text that tells her that you were just thinking about her and hope her day is going well. Tell her to text you back if she finds some free time, but that you understand that she’s busy. When you do this, try not to make it seem like you’re trying to guilt trip her because she can’t talk to you. It will just end up making her angry.
“Keep her interested in the conversation”
If you text her and she is free to text back, you should start by asking her how her day went. If she mentions something in particular that she did that day, it is her way of telling you that she wants you to ask questions about whatever that thing was. For example, if she mentions that she went to the hair salon, ask her what she got done to her hair, and then follow up by asking her if she likes it. Don’t be surprised if she wants to show you a photo of her new hairstyle. Even if you hate it, tell her that she looks amazing.
If she happens to be both free and horny, you can really kick things up by asking her what she would have you do to her, or what she would do to you. Do not tell her all the things you would do to her. Rather, let her lead the discussion. This will give her the courage and confidence she needs to take the further. The only reason you should avoid doing this is if she is the type of woman that prefers a man to lead, if so, make sure everything you text her gets her excited and begging for more.
Texting may be easy and convenient, but it’s easy to create confusion when you can’t actually judge facial expressions of the tone of someone’s voice. Don’t mess up the perfect opportunity for a hookup by jumping to conclusions.