The whole point of talking to women on online dating sites is that you plan to meet up with her eventually, either in hopes of having a date or in the hopes of hooking up. However, sometimes it’s not a good idea to meet up with the woman you’ve been chatting with online. There are some instances where you’re just going to want to cut your losses and back off before you make a big mistake by meeting up with her. Knowing what warning signs to look out for when you message women online will help you make sure you don’t waste your time meeting up with the wrong women.
Her Profile Is Vague and She Seems Sketchy
“She might not even be a real woman”
Meeting up with someone you’ve never met in person can be risky, even for guys. You might not think so, but just imagine if you thought you were meeting up with a hot woman only to find out too late that it’s just a guy that wants to mug you. This probably isn’t going to be that common, but it’s always best to err on the side of caution. If her profile seems way too vague and her responses aren’t that believable, you might be setting yourself up for a world of hurt. She might not even be a real person, or she might just be stringing you along only to ditch you when you go to meet up. Use your judgment wisely. If it seems too good to be true, sometimes it is. Choose wisely when you decide to meet up with a woman you met online.
She Seems a Little Bit Too Desperate for Your Attention
“Does her replying speed looks suspicious to you?”
While a little desperation in the women you want to hook up with can be hot, it can also be dangerous for you in the long run. A woman who’s desperate might wind up being crazy, and not in the good way. Hooking up with a woman who’s a little desperate can be fine, but sometimes you can be in danger of her stalking you or worse. Sleeping with the wrong woman can make your life a living hell if you’re not careful, so if she seems just a little too desperate to meet up with you, you may want to cut your losses and move on to someone else.
Her Photos Are Old or Not Clear
There’s nothing more disappointing and awkward than meeting up with a woman who looks nothing like she did in her photos. If her photos don’t seem recent, you might be setting yourself up for a bad surprise. Photos that are blurry or seem to be taken from advantageous angles in order to make her look better are also a huge warning sign. You should always look at her pictures carefully to see if they look legit or not. You may also want to run them through a reverse search engine to make sure they weren’t jacked from somewhere else in the case of someone pretending to be a hot woman.