When you want a woman to be comfortable around you, there are a couple of quick things you can do to make sure that she doesn’t think that you’re a threat to be around. Convincing a woman to be comfortable around you is extremely important. If she isn’t comfortable, you can forget about ever getting laid.
“Your smile can make her smile”
Believe it or not, a little smiling can go a long way. Women are taught to believe that almost all men are up to no good. When you’re with a woman and you’re giving her bedroom eyes before the two of you make it into the bedroom, chances are that she probably isn’t going to be comfortable around you anytime soon. When you want to get a woman to feel like she can be comfortable around you, you have to make sure that she feels like you aren’t a threat to her physically or mentally. In order to do this, you have to be able to willingly smile.
There’s something about smiling that women love. Of course, you shouldn’t spend the entire day smiling because that may make her think you’re some type of creep. However, you definitely do need to smile often while you are with her. She shouldn’t feel like the police are interviewing her when she’s on a date with you. When you don’t smile often, a woman may start to question whether or not you’re actually interested in her. She may also begin to doubt herself. When she does that, your chances with her will quickly start to dwindle. If you really want to get her comfortable as quickly as possible, try smiling at the people around you. Hold the door for someone and smile at them in greeting, or smile when you glance over at the children at the table behind you eating dinner with their parents. It will quickly make her think that you’re a safe person to be around.
Watch Your Body Language
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“Don’t make your body posture too rigid”
Body language is very important when it comes to making someone comfortable. If you’re too uptight and stiff, it will make the people around you uncomfortable. Being unsure of where to put your hands, or balling them into fists without realizing it, can be terrible when you’re dating someone new. When women see this, they may think that you are dangerous and will definitely try to get away from you as quickly as possible.
The best way to get control of your body language is to take a few moments every now and become self-aware of the way you have your body positioned. While slouching isn’t exactly appealing to women, it’s better than sitting at the edge of your seat as if you’re about to pounce at any minute.
Getting women to be comfortable around you isn’t all that difficult as long as you are mindful of how you are presenting yourself. A trick that some men use is to model their behaviors off of well-known actors and comedians that women seem to adore. If all else fails, you can’t go wrong with adapting Clooney’s or Hiddleston’s mannerisms.