If you’ve tried out online dating websites you’ve probably realized that they’re a really good thing. Sure, you can go out and meet women conventionally but do you have instant access to hundreds of hotties all at once? Meeting and dating women online is easier in a lot of ways and once you meet one you like you can take the next step and meet her in real life. Anyone familiar with online dating is aware that there are a few issues. One of the most common is that it’s hard to tell sometimes if a woman really likes you through online chat. So how can you figure it out?
“She must be talking to many guys”
So you’ve found a babe who’s smoking hot (according to her profile photo) and you’ve started chatting her up. But her replies all feel generic and automated. If this is the case, chances are she’s not really interested in you in particular. Instead, she’s feeding you the same lines she’s been feeding tons of other guys. She’s doing this in order to keep you all interested. Instead of focusing on one guy, she’s focusing on a bunch. If you’re serious about finding a woman to date in real life and maybe form a relationship with, it might be time to move on to a woman who has time to focus only on you.
Maybe she’s replied to you. Maybe you’ve shared a few online chats. But if she’s reluctant to do anything more, she might not actually be interested in you. For example, if you’ve asked to see more pictures of her and she’s turned you down flat, she either doesn’t think you’re worth the time or she doesn’t want you to see her. Both of these are warning flags. Reluctance to join you on webcam or talk with you over the phone are both bad signs, too. Better to move on to women that are willing to share with you.
“Answer her questions carefully. Remember she is judging you”
Not every woman who signed up on an adult dating website is looking for the same thing you are. In fact, some of them are out for one thing and one thing only. So if she starts asking you pointed questions about how much you make, what kind of car you drive, and if you like to spoil women, be careful. Some women troll the Internet just to find a man to take care of them financially. So unless you’re willing to drop some serious cash on her, move on.
She Only Wants Sex
Why is this a bad thing? Most of the time it’s not. But if you’re looking for a potential relationship partner and not just someone to sleep with, a woman who’s only interested in hooking up may not be what you want. So if you keep trying to talk with her and she keeps trying to steer things into sexual territory, you need to decide if it’s what you want. On one hand, online (and eventual real life) sex with a hottie is every man’s dream. On the other hand, casual sex probably isn’t going to lead to a relationship.