Interracial dating can be tricky if it’s your first time. You may constantly wonder if you’re going to do or say something to offend women before you even get the chance to get to know them. Luckily, there are some simple ways to make sure that you don’t insult or offend women of various races. If you stick to these, you won’t ever have to worry about angering her, or turning her off. More importantly, you will greatly improve your chances of interracial dating.
She Isn’t Her Skin Color
“Her colour doesn’t matters to you”
There isn’t a single woman who likes to be told that she’s attractive for her race. In fact, according to the woman we’ve talked to, every single one of them considers compliments such as, “I’ve never seen a black woman as hot as you,” or “I love Asian woman” as flat out insults. A lot of men have the problem of focusing on a woman’s race to show their interest in them, which obviously ends up being a huge problem. These women feel like men only see them as items rather that actual human beings.
If you have ever sent a message to a woman online about how beautiful the color of her skin is or her natural hair, and she never replied back, it’s because you offended her. If you want to get a woman of a difference race to reply back to your online messages, you have to make sure that she doesn’t think you’re messaging her simply because of the color of her skin. Do not give her any compliments that may make her suspicious of your intentions. Instead, focus on parts of her profile that you may be able to ask questions about. If you do want to compliment her, just tell her that she’s attractive.
Have You Ever Been With…
“Don’t ask questions about her past that may offend her”
Another thing you should absolutely avoid is asking a woman if she has ever been with a man of your race before. Women do not like being asked this question. If she doesn’t have any interest in men of your race, she will either tell you or ignore your messages. Asking a woman if she has ever been with a particular race can give off the indication that you are stereotyping her. If you want to ask a woman if she’s OK with dating a man of your race, you can simply ask her how she feels about interracial dating. Explain to her that the only reason that you’re asking is because you’ve had women tell you that they aren’t attracted to men of your race and that you didn’t want to risk offending her. She will be both flattered and appreciate the fact that you asked.
Always remember that when it comes to dating, never single out a specific factor about a woman. She wants to know that you appreciate the entire package, not just bits and pieces. If you do end up offending her, ask her to let you know, and most importantly, apologize for it. Some women can be pretty forgiving if they really feel like you meant no harm.