The About Me section of an online profile is the meat of your dating career. You have to write a great, purposeful section if you want women to respond to you. Sending out great messages won’t be enough if ladies don’t like what they see when they get on your profile. Take some time on this when you start; treat it like a resume and you’ll put in the time and effort it takes to get great results. These tip[s will also help you create the kind of profile that grabs a woman’s attention and won’t let go.
Be Specific about Interests
Being vague is the best way to make yourself seem boring. If you like to go out and have a good time that doesn’t really tell a woman much about you. Almost everyone likes that. You’re not going to stand out in her mind, and she’s not going to know what you like to talk about. She also doesn’t know what a date with you is likely to look like. You want to help her picture a great, fun future with you. Say that you like parasailing every month, and you’re the treasurer of a chess club you set up with your coworkers, and they’re talking about naming a sandwich after you down in your favorite bar. Whatever it is, put it in there.
If You’re Stuck Make a List
“Be prepared with a list”
If you don’t know what you do or how you could make it interesting, don’t despair. Just take the time to think of everything you did that week that made you even a little happy. If you read even a couple pages of a book, write it down. If you went to get a beer with the guys, write it down. Then think of things you looked forward to over the past three months; big conventions, birthday parties, etc. From this you should be able to make a list of interesting things you like. If you can’t, then pick a day of the week and start going out and doing something that day.
Use Dynamic Verbs
You should try to write this section in an engaging manner. Instead of using boring words like “like to do” and plain phrases, spice it up a bit. Say that you love to conquer mountains while hiking. It might sound a little dramatic and over the top when you’re writing it, but to a woman reading it you’ll sound forceful, energetic, and interesting. She’ll want to find out more, and the bait will have sunk in.
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“Women loves to get attention of a busy man”
Above all, you should sound like a man with a lot going on in his life. Women don’t want to be with a boring man who stays at home all the time. Even if she’s a bit of a homebody herself, she still wants to believe that getting a boyfriend or at least going on dates would change that. You have to sound like you’re going to be a blast to hang around with. If you have to stretch the truth a little when you write your profile, so be it. Just make sure that you pick up a couple hobbies by the time you go on your first date.