There’s a whole system that goes with calling a woman back. Some guys say if you call before three days is up then you’re going to look whipped. Others say that you really need to stretch it out to a week. With all of these different opinions you can end up waiting around and missing your chance altogether. If you want to ensure that you’ll get another date with her, then you’ve got to rethink everything you know about the call-back rule.
“If you had a good time with her then call back”
The harsh truth is that it sort of depends on how your date went. There is definitely a guideline that we’ll get to but first you need to think about the date you went on. How did it end? Did she smile and say she had a really great time? Maybe you even got a little kiss on the cheek. Any of these very obvious signs of enjoyment mean that you should wait a few extra days to call her back. If she left your car with a “Thanks for the good time” or something along those lines, then it might seem like she actually has some pretty mediocre feelings about the date. You’ll have to be a little faster on the trigger to keep her interest up.
A Great Ending
“Wait for it”
All right, so with the scenario of having a really awesome ending you’re going to wait a few more days to call her. This might seem totally counter intuitive but at this point you know that she’s already interested in you. The signs all point to the major likelihood of another date. Instead of jumping in feet first with this woman, take your time. Keeping your distance and waiting at least five days to call her back will make her interest spike. Sure, before you knew you’d get a second date, but now you know that you’re going to be her only interest in the dating field.
A Mediocre Ending
So Miss Hot-stuff wasn’t so hot on you. That’s all right. Not all dates end in fireworks and sudden making-out. You can still have a chance to get another date with her. This is especially true if the first date just didn’t give enough space to really get to know each other. You are going to wait three days to call her back. The next day would be way too soon and make you look needy. The five days that you would have waited for the Great Ending woman is far too long. In that amount of time she’s forgotten about your lackluster date. But three days is enough time to let her process you as a person and not forget what happened during your date together.
If you aren’t so sure how well your date went, you’ll need some time to look back on it and process the signs that she put out. Anywhere from three-to-five days will work, but really capturing your window of opportunity can be the sole reason you end up getting another date with her.