“Do you like her?”
It’s a fact: nerds are sexy. This is becoming more and more the case as nerd culture becomes mainstream. So maybe you’re a nerdy guy looking for a sexy nerd babe online. Should be easy enough, right? It can be if you go about it the right way. If you’ve signed up with an online dating website but you’re not sure how to find the nerdy ladies, we’ve got the answers for you.
Own Your Inner Nerd
You want to attract the nerdy women? Be up front about your own nerdiness. Make your profile as open about that fact as possible. If you love video games, list it. If you enjoy anime, put that down too. Your love of sci-fi and fantasy movies, TV shows, and books are all good options to add into your profile. Be advised, though-this kind of information may scare away the women that aren’t necessarily ready to embrace nerd culture. It will definitely interest the ladies that are just as nerdy as you, though.
Talk About What’s Current
Nerd culture has become so mainstream that it’s very easy to find something nerd-related to talk about. Once you’ve found a woman you’re interested in, start off your initial conversation by talking about things like Doctor Who or the latest Bioware video games. Even if she’s not familiar with the topic she’ll likely be interested in it, which means that you’re going to have something more to talk about.
“Try to learn more about her interests”
Maybe you’ve found a woman who’s a long-time Magic: The Gathering player. Maybe you’ve always been interested in MTG but have never gotten around to trying it out. Invite her to share her history and stories about her hobbies so that you can get to know both her and the game better. Nerd culture is so vast and so diverse that there’s tons to learn. Learning about it together can be enjoyable and a good way to learn about each other.
Be Aware of Your Appearance
The days are long over of nerds consisting only of fat, white, scruffy basement dwellers that still live with their parents. So pay attention to your appearance when adding pictures to your online dating profile. It’s important to be clean. It’s also important to present an image that’s attractive. So take the time to trim up your neck beard and hair. Wear clothes that are clean and look good on you. Take the picture from a flattering angle with good lighting. You might be looking for a nerdy babe, but if you look good enough you might draw in other kinds of sexy ladies, too.
Arrange Online Nerdy Dates
When you first start talking to a woman online, you’re kind of limited in what you can do together. This isn’t always the case for nerds, though. Invite her to join you in an online match together in a game you both play. A PvP match in World of Warcraft can serve as an online date just as effectively as talking through messenger. This way you can bond over something you both enjoy while having fun and learning more about each other.