“Don’t act like a jerk”
Convincing a woman to meet you in person can be tough. Many times, women may seem like they’re having a great time talking to you, but the moment you ask to see her in person, you never hear from her again. There are two reasons for why women do this. The first reason is that she was never serious about meeting you in the first place, and that you have just wasted your time. It sucks, but it happens to the best of us. The second reason is that she doesn’t feel comfortable enough to meet you, and when you make her aware of the fact that you want to see her, it scares her. If you want to convince a woman to meet you in person, you have to show her that you are a safe person to be around.
Brush Up On Your Sense of Humor
No matter what type of man a woman is into, pretty much all of them want a guy that can make her laugh. Even those women who prefer the mysterious and brooding type of guys still want them to be capable of cracking a few jokes now and then. You don’t have to worry about it if you’re not a comedian, or don’t know the best jokes around. All you really have to do is appear friendly and approachable and be able to laugh at yourself. The best jokes you can tell are ones about yourself. If you did something particularly embarrassing, but also amusing that day, tell her about it and make sure she knows that you see the humor in it. Let her know that you’re okay with her laughing at you, but stick to that particular topic for too long or she will start to think you don’t have anything else to talk about.
When it comes to sense of humor, you definitely want to avoid making jokes on someone else’s behalf. Do not talk about or laugh at stereotypes of your race or culture or anyone else’s. Feminists are everywhere and they aren’t the stereotypical ones you may think they are. Better to play it safe than sorry.
Lure Her with Her Interests
“She loves to talk about her interests”
Another way to convince women to meet you in person is to find something that they are interested in and invite her to explore that interest. If she is the type of woman who loves animals or museums, entice her by bringing up the recent birth of a panda at the local zoo, or a new exhibit at the nearest museum. Let her know that you’re planning to go and ask her if she wants to come with you. Make sure that you give her a few days of advance notice to agree or decline.
Convincing a woman to meet you in person can be tricky, but it’s not impossible. You just have to make sure that you aren’t coming on too strong and that you don’t appear too eager or too desperate. She has to feel safe around you at all times if you want to be able to hook up with her.