“Don’t try to impress her with your immaturity”
Not every guy wants to date a woman who’s only tits and ass. Sometimes the whole package is a hottie who’s intelligent, too. It’s easier to pick up women who only want sex. It’s a little harder to find and connect with women who are sexy, smart, and available. This is really true when it comes to finding intellectual hotties online. Online adult dating gives you access to hundreds of women, but not all of them have the qualities that you’re looking for. If you’re interested in finding intellectual women online, try following our tips.
Make Your Profile Sound Smart
You don’t need to list Stephen Hawking quotes on your profile in order to come across as a smart guy. In fact, if you try too hard, you’re going to look like a pretentious douchebag. So instead try to be casual about the fact that you consider yourself an intellectual. List some of your favourite books and documentaries under things you enjoy. If you’ve spent time in college or university, mention that. You don’t want to rub it in women’s faces that you’re smarter than they are. You want to appear like an intelligent, available, attractive guy.
“Your originality may wow her”
So maybe you’re not a genius. There’s no shame in that. Pretending to be an intellectual when you’re not is probably going to backfire. So don’t even try. Smart women aren’t always looking for smart men. If you start quoting famous intellectuals without knowing what they’re talking about or bringing up topics you’re not familiar with, any potential intelligent women that you’re trying to lure are going to realize that you don’t know what you’re talking about.
Intelligent women are going to respect curiosity. So if you’ve managed to secure the attentions of an intellectual hottie, don’t throttle your curiosity. Instead, use it to learn more about her and what she likes. If you’ve ever had experiences that have left you feeling intellectually enlightened, share them. Invite her to share the same. Ask her about all the things you are interested in knowing. This gives the two of you a way to bond and to learn more about each other.
Be up front about what you know and what you want to know. Honestly is going to go a long way with an intellectual woman and will earn you more points that if you lied about your intelligence level. So maybe you never finished college-pretending it isn’t going to end well. The same goes if you work in a trade instead of a career that required educational training. Don’t be ashamed about what you are. Stand by it and tell her the truth. She’ll respect you more for it.
State What You’re Looking For
Sometimes it’s as easy as saying what you want. On your dating profile you can list that you’re interested in intellectual women. This alerts potential dates right away about what you like. You might still get replies from women that aren’t, but it’s easy enough to weed through those until you find a smart babe.