Why the Third Date is So Important

Everyone lays a lot of weight on the first two dates that you have with a woman. Of course the first date is going to be the most awkward and the second one means that she obviously liked you enough to come back for more. But after that the subject just seems to drop. The stupid thing about that is that the third date is actually the most important one that you’ll end up going on. If you’re not convinced, then read on and have your mind changed. It’s the Heaviest “You know almost everything about each other” You know when you’re with a person and the conversation starts to get into really serious subjects. That’s the heavy stage. Conversation that’s heavy revolves around death, exes, past dreams, and the like. On the third date you start delving into all of that. Especially the part about ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends. It won’t even come up by choice. You’ve already had all of the light-hearted conversations about what you do for a living and her favorite color. When you’re starting to become serial daters you have no other path to go on. It’s the Most Meaningful At this point in the game you know that you like each other enough to keep…

What Your Way of Talking Says about You

There’s no doubt that women are very perceptive creatures, which makes flirting with and dating them something of a potential minefield. Thankfully, it can be easily navigated when you know what you’re doing and how it influences everything. One of these influential elements in flirting is your speech. Some scientists are actually able to tell where you’re from, how you grew up and what profession you have, just by listening to you talk. Of course, women aren’t quite as good as that (unless they actually are one of these scientists), but they can decide if they want to see you again, partially due to your manner of speaking. So to have your date go to your advantage, keep the following in mind: The Speed of Your Speech Depending on your career, your last presentation was either in school or a week ago. If you’ve gone through a full preparation, you will have checked how long your presentation goes without an audience. After the actual presentation, you might notice one thing: you’ve spoken faster than without an audience. By this example you can see how relevant the speed at which you talk is. When you’re nervous, you’ll talk much faster. While it’s alright to be slightly nervous on a date, it…

What Type of Photos Should You Send Her?

Deciding what type of photos to send women is pretty easy as long as you know the type of woman that you’re talking to. Some guys make the mistake of going straight of the crotch shot and dick pics that will pretty much ensure that a woman never talks to you again. While we can understand that you’re trying to entice women because we all know that women actually do care about size. If that type of photo is the first one that you send her, she will no longer be interested in you. It doesn’t matter how well-endowed you are. Women like surprises, and this is no exception. Before you start filling up her inbox and cell phone with your most indecent photos, make sure you know if it’s the right time to send them. Casual Flirting “Healthy flirting is always welcome” If the two of you are just casually flirting via text or email, you should avoid sending her any type of nude photos right away. If you do decide to send her a photo, you will need to ask permission first. When you ask permission, do not say anything like, “Want to see a picture of me?” or “Can I show you something?” This will immediately sound…

What to Do When Your Hot Date Fizzles

Dates are always a little bit awkward at first. It doesn’t matter if they’re the first or the fifth, you’re still going out with a stranger to do forced activities that will make you feel closer. But no matter how well you plan said activities you can still end up with a date that’s just not working out. It might be chemistry between the two of you or maybe plans just don’t seem that exciting once you’re doing them. But you can still turn it all around with minimal effort. Change the Mood “Make her laugh with your jokes” If you’re trying to be a cool outdoorsy type of date and take her hiking, you might want to switch things up. Not everyone is into the outdoors, so if you notice that she doesn’t seem to be interested in what’s going on be spontaneous. Ask her if she wants to go catch a movie instead. Let her help pick out your next destination so that you’re sure she’ll like it. When you’re in a restaurant that can be either too stuffy or too casual ditch it before the waiter takes your order. If that’s not possible, then follow it up with something really extreme on the other end of the…

What Should You Text About?

When you’ve been fortunate enough to receive a woman’s cell phone number, you may be wondering if it’s OK to text her. You may also be wondering what type of things you should text her about. While some women are happy to receive look texts filled with tons of questions and compliments, other women can get annoyed with really long texts. Other women can become irritated when they receive a bunch of short texts that seem like they could have all fit into one text. The trick to texting is discovering what a woman is up to via your initial text and then to take things from there. She’s Busy “Wait for the right moment to text her” When a woman tells you that she’s busy, this is not an invitation to keep texting her and patiently waiting for her to text you back. When a woman tells you that she’s busy, it’s either because she really is busy, or because she does not want to speak to you. If she is actually busy as she says, the last thing you want to do is annoy her by sending her multiple texts or asking her questions that she can’t answer right away. If you don’t want to risk annoying her,…

Webcam Tips to Make You Look Good

Seeing a hottie for the first time online is the same as seeing one for the first time in person. You want to look good. You want her to be attracted to you. You want her to be interested in spending more time with you. So when you’re going to be seeing each other over webcam for the first time you’re going to want to look your best. Because webcams are notorious for making people look bad, you’re going to have to do some preparation in order to make sure that that’s not the case. Lighting “More light makes you appear good” Lighting issues are the most common with webcams. Video tends to either look too dim or too bright. Either situation makes you look bad. So how to make sure the lighting is just right? Don’t have a light source directly behind you. It’ll put you in shadow and the webcam responds to light hitting it directly by dimming the picture. Instead, have a light source facing you. You don’t need to run out and by expensive set lighting. The fix is as simple as having a desk lamp and turning it on you. Connection Issues Nothing’s going to kill the mood like video lagging or Internet interruptions. There…

Warning Signs That You Shouldn’t Meet Up with Her

The whole point of talking to women on online dating sites is that you plan to meet up with her eventually, either in hopes of having a date or in the hopes of hooking up. However, sometimes it’s not a good idea to meet up with the woman you’ve been chatting with online. There are some instances where you’re just going to want to cut your losses and back off before you make a big mistake by meeting up with her. Knowing what warning signs to look out for when you message women online will help you make sure you don’t waste your time meeting up with the wrong women. Her Profile Is Vague and She Seems Sketchy “She might not even be a real woman” Meeting up with someone you’ve never met in person can be risky, even for guys. You might not think so, but just imagine if you thought you were meeting up with a hot woman only to find out too late that it’s just a guy that wants to mug you. This probably isn’t going to be that common, but it’s always best to err on the side of caution. If her profile seems way too vague and her responses aren’t that believable, you might…

Tips to Make Her More Comfortable Around You

When you want a woman to be comfortable around you, there are a couple of quick things you can do to make sure that she doesn’t think that you’re a threat to be around. Convincing a woman to be comfortable around you is extremely important. If she isn’t comfortable, you can forget about ever getting laid. Smile “Your smile can make her smile” Believe it or not, a little smiling can go a long way. Women are taught to believe that almost all men are up to no good. When you’re with a woman and you’re giving her bedroom eyes before the two of you make it into the bedroom, chances are that she probably isn’t going to be comfortable around you anytime soon. When you want to get a woman to feel like she can be comfortable around you, you have to make sure that she feels like you aren’t a threat to her physically or mentally. In order to do this, you have to be able to willingly smile. There’s something about smiling that women love. Of course, you shouldn’t spend the entire day smiling because that may make her think you’re some type of creep. However, you definitely do need to smile often while you are with…

Surprising Places to Meet Women

Hitting the dating and hookup scene can be difficult if it has been a while since you last dated. You might just want to start hitting bars and clubs in your search for the perfect woman, since there’s bound to be plenty of single women there no matter what. This is all well and good, but there’s also going to be plenty of single guys there trying to pick up the same women you’re after. Knowing where else you can go to find women will allow you to increase your chances, and you might be surprised to know where you might have the best luck of all. Music or Food Festivals “Music is always refreshing” Music festivals are incredibly crowded, especially if you go to any of the biggest festivals of the season. It also helps that there’s usually quite a bit of booze flowing at these festivals, so everyone is having a good time – which means that it can be the perfect place to meet a new woman. You already have plenty of opportunities for conversation starters, since you probably both enjoy the same bands if you’re at the same music festival. Countless hookups happen at music festivals, and it’s time for you to be one of the…

Slowing Down Your Dating Speed

Whoever said that guys are just in it for sex can suck it. Just because it’s awesome to have sex with a woman doesn’t mean that that’s all you want from her. Society can make it seem like dating isn’t something that you do lightly, so unfortunately we end up speeding it up and taking wrong turns until you have sex, but then find out that you don’t really like each other in any other way. When you slow down your dating speed you can find a woman that is awesome to hang out with and end up sexing her too. It’s the best of both worlds. Count Your Words “Don’t bore her with your stupid stories” All right, you don’t have to literally count your words, but when you’re with her try not to be the waterfall of a person who lets out their whole life story in one go. She will get to know you over time. Presenting everything that you know about yourself all at once is way overwhelming and takes the mystery out of everything. The same rule applies to talking or texting. It can be really easy to want to text her all day long. It makes you feel good and you want to show…

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